Friday, 8 April 2016

TGIF: London



I love it when plans finally see the light of day. There is a sense of achievement, of satisfaction, as if the months of fantasising and meticulous planning were worth it all. There were many nights where I spent lying awake thinking about going to London with Adam* and on Friday, we finally went.

It had been some time since I had last visited London and to behave as a tourist. My family and I normally go up there with a set purpose and get caught up with the busy flow of London life. Additionally, when we used to live in London, there was no 'need' to visit the sites as we were surrounded by them all the time. It would seem unnecessary to spend a vast amount of money on tours and tickets when I saw the famous landmarks on a daily basis. Unfortunately, this meant that I never acted as a tourist - by which I mean just getting an underground day pass and going wherever my heart desired.

My love of art and culture is what identifies me as a person. I was fortunate enough to visit the Saatchi Gallery at the time when the Rolling Stones' exhibition was being held. It had only recently been opened (we visited London on Friday the 8th and it opened its doors on Tuesday the 5th) and I believe that the iEC (who put on the exhibition) did a fantastic job at capturing the feel of who the Rolling Stones really were.  For those who are interested, the exhibition is shown up until early September, so I'd think that it would be a great place to visit in the summer holidays. The nine show rooms were filled with the band's original instruments, exclusive video footages, and even personal diary entries. What interested me the most was definitely the flamboyancy of the costumes that each band member wore. It made me realise that when creating a business (which, essentially, is what a band is), everything to do with that business must be congruant with the band's image. The Stones were outrageous and appealed to those who wanted to rebel and I could sense the rebellion through their lyrics, their clothes, and their general attitudes towards authority. 




After walking along the Thames in search of food, Adam, his father and I finally found a cute little vegan restaurant in the middle of Covent Garden called Le Pain Quotidien. Although it was extremely busy, the waiter managed to sit the three of us down in a corner. My first impression of the place was that it looked very 'Instagram Worthy'. I declined to bring this up in conversation with the other two, as, no doubt, they may have judged me, but the overall feel of the café was that it was very modern and simplistic. The tables were wooden and the simple table decoration included the salt and pepper in two lovely glass jars. The menu itself was overall very health orientated. From a quick glance, I could see that their food was all dairy and gluten free, something that has become fairly fashionable of late. Personally, I think it's just marketing and people jumping on a bandwagon, but who am I to speak? Whenever I get McDonalds' vouchers I can't resist the carbs and the grease and don't even question whether it's doing my body any good. It's cheap food and keeps me going. Anyway, I digress.
Above, I attach a photo of what I had to eat. I don't think the photo does it justice - my Avocado and Toast was topped with super seeds, citrus cumin salt, lemon juice and olive oil. It was delicious. Since the bread gave its name to the restaurant, I thought the bread would be a must-try and it did not fail me. It was quite heavy, understandably so for a dish on the 'main meal' section. If I were lucky enough to go again, I would probably try one of their soups of the day as I saw that it was a popular choice amongst the other customers. Adam's father also had a drink which was a mixture of milk and cinnamon which was absolutely gorgeous, but I can't find its name on the menu. Does anyone know what it's called? 

Our next adventure was to explore Regent Street. It was around late afternoon so the crowds were dwindeling down by this point, so we were able to visit most of the shops that we wanted to. When people say that everything is bigger and better in London, they're not wrong. When we visited Topshop, there were about 5 different floors and one could easily get lost (if one didn't have someone like Adam to follow, who is 6"3 and whose head towers over everyone and everything). Each floor contained a different attraction. These ranged from a barber's shop, a beauty salon, and even a cupcake store! I felt that everything was overpriced but I loved browsing through it all. I could have spent hours just exploring the shop, but I was keen to get going since Adam said he had a 'surprise' for me... 
If you know me IRL, you'll know my obsession with cuddlies. I'm 18 years old yet I am as excitable as a 5 year old when it comes to stuffed animals. Adam knows this and lead me by the hand, rushing me slightly until we were outside one of the biggest toy shops that I have ever been to: Hamley's. I felt like a little child again when I walked through the doors to be faced with sooooo many toys! I rushed around hugging giant teddy bears, screaming with joy and trying to pop all the bubbles that were constantly being blown in my direction (it's more likely that I was running towards the bubbles rather than them coming towards me, but that's a minor point). 

Our shopping spree lasted the majority of the afternoon, and as our little luncheon of healthy stuff was a good five hours ago, we all decided to go to the Yo! Sushi as it was conveniently situated at Waterloo Station, where we were due to catch the train back to Bournemouth. Again, this restaurant was another first time for me. I have only recently started to like sushi (surprisingly, since I'm Asian and ought to have 'embraced' my culture before now), but now that I am living healthier (slightly contradicting what I said earlier about McDonalds), I love the fresh and clean taste that the sushi leaves on my palette. At Yo! Sushi, the food arrives on a conveyor belt and one can simply pick out what one fancies. There is also the option to order food, where one has to press a little button which lights up a post at your table to beckon the waiter/ess over. I loved the novelty of it all and would certainly go back again.

Unfortunately, our day was drawing to an end and the journey back on the train gave my feet time to recover after the long day of walking everywhere. As I lay my head on Adam's shoulder, we started to plan the next trip we were going to go on together. I can guarantee that this summer will be filled with a lot more adventures! in futurum expectat.




All names in this blog are fake in order to ensure the privacy of my friends and conceal their identities. However, the characters are all real people and the events actually happened



Thursday, 31 March 2016

Edinburgh Trip



Somehow I managed to get my parents to fly me up to Edinburgh for a couple of days. God only knows how I managed to persuade them, but on Tuesday, Mother and I flew up to get absolutely #rekt in Scotland.

Obviously, that was sarcasm. We went up to visit the University, which, I can finally confirm, I put as my insurance! It was a long and arduous decision to make, but hopefully it was the right one. If anyone here is hoping to study at Edinburgh or has done in the past, please don't hesitate to send a quick message!

What first took me by surprise when getting off the aeroplane in Edinburgh was the weather. Being in Scotland, I assumed that it would have been colder, especially in contrast to 'Sunny Sunny Bournemouth', where I had flown from. The skies were blue, and the city looked gorgeous.

Along Princes Street

The Castle I didn't get to visit !!!


We were quick to dump our luggage off at our hotel. We had booked into a Travelodge on Rose Street, which was located conveniently close to Princes Street. For those who haven't heard, this is Scotland's equivalent of Oxford Street in London. In my opinion, it's also much nicer, as if you turn away from the shops, Edinburgh Castle is up on the hill towering down over you. Edinburgh feels much greener, much cleaner than the busy streets of London. On the third and final day of our visit, Mother and I went on the SightSeeing tour bus which was £15 each. It enabled us to hop on and off for the whole day, and pick it up again only 15 minutes later. The tour guides also offered us the opportunity to buy discounted tickets for different places (such as fast-passes to Edinburgh castle), but unfortunately we didn't have enough time. Maybe if I go to Edinburgh again I'll write a blog post describing my adventures then.

Great for the elder. Childhood memories were brought back to Mum and she exclaimed 'Ohh I had one of those!' every five seconds.

Scottish Parliament. Eye sore. Looks like guns are on the side of the building.
Mother and I
Please can someone tell me what this is

I can't remember, sorry. Looks cool though.




Moving on to the University - wow! Well, the day wasn't very well organised, but they had a cool app available on AppStore and GooglePlay which enabled you to schedule your day. My main lectures would be in St George Square, and it all seemed very modern and clean. After getting lost several times around the city, I came to realise that I was getting to know the city by doing so. As someone once said, "The best way to find yourself, is by losing yourself in a new city".


Friday, 25 March 2016

The Boathouse



Every time I've been to Christchurch, I have always had such lovely days out. Today was no exception - the sky was blue, the birds were singing, and it was surprisingly nice weather considering that tomorrow is forecast 'torrential rain'. Hurrah for Easter.

I arrived in the center of town at around 10:30am, and spent half an hour sitting by the river reading Simone De Beauvoir.* I have recently found myself wanting to escape social media more and more, or just technology as a whole. There's a sense of release for me when I don't have to be looking down at my phone all the time. I'm able to look around me, take a deep breath of fresh air, and just appreciate my surroundings. That being said, I was reading on my Kindle, and was on loudspeaker to Adam**. Oops.

When arriving at the Boathouse, we were pleasantly greeted by a waitress who showed us to our seats. I'd recommend booking, as even though their most popular times are in the evenings, lunchtimes do get busy, especially since it is in a prime location opposite the quay. As shown above, I ordered Boathouse Burger (£12.75) and Adam ordered Chargrilled Halloumi & Roasted Vegetables (£12.95). Both were cooked to perfection, and served on an aesthetically pleasing dish. #snapchatworthy

Unfortunately, we were both too full to be able to slip in a Sticky Toffee Pudding or two, so we instead walked it off by visiting the ruins and walking along the rivière. I truly believe that an experience is enhanced when the weather is pleasant, but also, or even, more importantly, when you're in such great company.





* For those who haven't read The Second Sex I would highly recommend it. It tackles the treatment of women throughout history and is arguably what created the second-wave of feminism.

*All names in this blog are fake in order to ensure the privacy of my friends and conceal their identities. However, the characters are all real people and the events actually happened

Thursday, 24 March 2016

Ramblings #3

I AM SO ANGRY AT ALL THESE HIGH STREET BRANDS THAT USE FRENCH WORDS/SAYINGS ON THEIR CLOTHING WITHOUT EVEN CHECKING IF THEY'RE SPELT CORRECTLY.

You'd think they would have enough money in their design department budget to be able to check up to see if the words are spelt correctly, right? Well, apparently not, and bilinguals are able to pick it up VERY quickly.

I was in River Island today (NO I'M NOT GOING TO KEEP THEM ANONYMOUS BECAUSE I'M SO ANGRY) and they had a t-shirt which said 'soigné' written on it. Nice material, nice colour, nice style, but not a nice saying!!!!!! I assume they meant to reference Kanye and the typical 'blessed' and wanted to add a nice twist to it. Fair enough, indi3 af. But the term in French actually comes from the word 'soin', meaning to 'care'. This, when conjugated, can be translated to 'to be cured from'. WHICH DOES NOT MEAN BLESSED. PLEASE GET A NATIVE OR NEAR NATIVE FRENCH PERSON TO CHECK YOUR PRODUCTS BEFORE PRODUCING THEM.

Rant over.

Monday, 8 February 2016

The Truth About Concerts



If you already hate me, let me give you another reason to: I've grown to hate concerts.

Yeah, this is fairly controversial, especially for a teenage girl who's surrounded by people constantly asking her whether she's seen the latest announcements for Reading 2016. It's a hard life having an unpopular opinion.

My very first concert was when I was 14 years old. I went to see All Time Low with my friend Louise*. As to slowly immerse myself into the 'concert life', I went on the balcony. As you can imagine, it wasn't the greatest of times. It's a great view, but the vibe doesn't really spread there, and at the end of the day you're just sat there, watching your favourite musician(s) play, knowing that you could have been watching the exact same thing on LiveStream from the comfort of your bedroom. And have saved yourself 35 quid or so.

Onto my second concert: You Me At Six. This time, I was standing, and went with a group of friends. I love the band, and I know all of their songs, singing along to each and every one of them. Seems great, doesn't it? Ahh well I didn't expect to get bloody dehydrated! Just as a bit of Liquid Confidence comes on (Josh baby, I don't need a drink up to convince myself that you're cute), I collapsed onto my friend. As she drags me semi-unconsciously out of the crowd, I'm rushed to the A&E and given something to drink. Obviously, we were unable to get back to our original places, and I got teased for the next fortnight for fainting.

This leads me nicely on to stuff I find annoying about concerts.

  1. What to wear. Now, this isn't just a question of a girl's wardrobe dilemma, this is more of a question whether you want to be warm outside, and boiling inside, or freezing outside, and only covered in a light sweat inside. My standard compromise is jeans, t-shirt, and a hoodie - it keeps you warm when standing outside queuing, and when you're inside the hall you're able to take the hoodie off and wrap it around your waist. Also, don't even consider bringing a coat with you. With O2 charging £3 an item, I'd rather freeze, thanks.
  2. The support acts. I feel that these are either moderately ok, or they make your ears bleed. For the latter, I do feel bad for them, as it must be awful having to perform for a crowd that don't give a flip about you and are standing there, motionless, on their phones, occasionally shouting out 'next please!'
  3. The sweaty tall people. Then again, this is just a problem for a 5 foot 3 hobbit like me (please can all Ringers abstain from shouting at me, yes I know hobbits are meant to be about 3 foot six). Then again, maybe others know the pain. The good thing about being small, is that you can squeeze through people or scream, in your highest pitch and most dramatic voice, 'I'VE LOST MY FRIENDS!!!!! THERE THEY ARE!!!' and point somewhere vaguely towards the front. People will let you pass, 100% guarantee or.. yeah. On the other hand, when you're stuck behind a 6 foot giant (again, yes giants are meant to be between 7-9 foot), it kind of sucks. Especially when you can't see the band/artist because you're stuck behind them and they are right in front of you. It's 2016, can't we invent some system to make all tall people go at the back? 
Okay, rant over. Or, should I say, I can't remember what else I was miffed about because I wrote this a few weeks ago. Oh well. To be honest, I'm starting to prefer the theatre than concert halls. I'm already a tired old granny before my time. This is what adulthood, responsibilities, and coursework deadlines do to you. Don't grow up, it's a trap.

Tuesday, 19 January 2016

TEDxTeen



For as long as I can remember, every night before going to bed, I will watch a Ted Talk. It's my way of relaxing and winding down for the night. I normally favour this to reading, especially when my eyes are tired after a full day at sixthform.

I am very thankful to my NCS group for letting me come with them on the trip to London. Early Saturday morning, we met in the BCHA center at 4am (it had been a long time since I've seen such time), hopped in the minibus, and set the O2 Arena as our destination. We arrived just in time for the first talk at 10am, which in all fairness was in good time as we stopped for a McBreakfast along the way.

As we scurried onto the balcony, I observed my surroundings. My heart was racing as I saw the TED sign on stage - it was all like a dream come true. I took my seat next to Kassety*, and sat mesmerised for the next 1h30. The talks, hosted by a very enthusiastic presenter, ranged from Mukunda's 'How Imagination Set Me Free' to Rob Greenfield's 'How To End the Food Waste Fiasco'. During the hour break, whilst my friends mingled with the speakers in the Purple lounge, I went to a seperate room where I learnt all about Adobe Voice. After being pleasantly surprised by a brown bag filled with all types of snacks, I met two young boys who were just as interested in Ted Talks as I was. We sat and spoke for a while, and it was a feeling of relief to find people who share common interests with you. In a way, I feel that that is what Ted Talks is all about: the sharing of common interests and the spreading of new ideas.

There were two other 'sessions' of talks which lasted 1h30 each, and the whole day ended with Rudimental playing live for us. I found that a really great experience and it ended the day on a high note. I regret not auditioning to become a TEDxTeen speaker, but hopefully I'll be given the opportunity to in a few years' time.



Before heading back to Bournemouth, the NCS team grabbed a quick go-to meal. I opted for Five Guys since there isn't one where I live, and spent a whooping five pounds on a milkshake. If you think Shakeways were expensive, then think again. All my friends thought I was crazy, but they quickly changed their minds once they tasted it. I asked the guy behind the counter what he'd recommend, as, he worked there, and I would assume they would try everything on offer, and so he recommended the Vanilla and Oreo Milkshake. I posted a picture above, which gives it no credit to the fluffiness of the cream, nor the freshness of the vanilla, nor the crunchy Oreo bits found at the bottom. I could not recommend a drink more, even if you'll be poor after buying it!





All names in this blog are fake in order to ensure the privacy of my friends and conceal their identities. However, the characters are all real people and the events actually happened

Friday, 18 December 2015

An Update



This is long overdue. My laptop battery is currently at 5%, giving me a slender amount of time to post this before my darling Chromebook dies on me, but I think we can make it. Hopefully.

Firstly, a lot has happened, hence why I haven't found a spare moment to update my blog. I really wanted to start this as a means of keeping myself on track with my life, yet as you may have realised that didn't quite go as planned. At least I'll have at least one New Year's Resolution: be more organised.

I personally find Evernote very useful. If you haven't already downloaded it on your smartphone (it also comes as an app on your laptop), I'd highly recommend it. I use the free version and it does the trick - it enables me to keep reminders of all the things I have to do and any little memos I want to give myself. I've had plenty in the last couple of months, some which I'd like to tell you all about!

The major news is that I've received a university offer from my joint top choice: Warwick. I was really fortunate as I sent off my UCAS application on the Friday (the 13th! Good one Mél) and received the offer on the Monday! It's my dream university so I really hope I get in. 

Second biggest news is that I'm finally an adult!! It doesn't feel real and it still shocks me a bit that I can no longer get 'child' fares on buses anymore, but I feel like I'm pretty much prepared for the rest. I called up my Dentist to make an appointment, for Goodness' sake, I've definitely taken well to adulthood.

Third biggest news was that on Wednesday I went to my school's Winter Ball which was very exciting for me as afterwards I went out clubbing for the first time! (I now no longer count my Aruba experience as a 'clubbing experience'. What. An. Embarrassment). Anyway, my favourite photo is the one I attached along with this blog post of me and my boyfriend Daniel*. 

Hopefully, I'll be updating my blog a bit more over the Christmas period, but if not, I hope you all have an amazing Christmas and a Happy New Year!




All names in this blog are fake in order to ensure the privacy of my friends and conceal their identities. However, the characters are all real people and the events actually happened